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Reduce sibling fights and bring more peace to your home - in 7 days


This step-by-step video training program will show you exactly how to respond to sibling conflict – you’ll never second guess yourself again.

Is the constant bickering between your kids driving you crazy?


Do you dream of a day when your house doesn’t feel like a boxing ring with round after round of brawls in the living room?

Do you feel like your toddler is secretly planning their next strike against the baby every time you turn your back?

Are you wondering if there’s actually something wrong with your kids because they just can’t seem to get along?

Join Gen Muir, Obstetric Social Worker and Parent Educator, for Smoother Siblings in 7 Days if you want to see real change in your home – think more harmony and less chaos.

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A proven plan of attack that finally works

Did you know that siblings can fight as much as 8 times per hour? Yep, that’s a fight every 7.5 minutes.

No wonder we’re all so bloody over it!

As a mum of four boys, I’ve been deep in the trenches. I’ve tried everything to stop the relentless “Don’t touch my Lego” and “That’s not fair” and “Muuum, he kicked me”. 

And what I’ve learnt along the way is this…

How you react can either fuel the fire or snuff out the blaze.

If you ignore the root cause of the bickering, the next argument is already on the way.

It’s all about understanding the why and having a set of practical strategies to use in the heat of the moment.

Get this right, and not only do the fights dial down, your kids also get better at handling disagreements on their own. That’s less refereeing for you and more peace in your home. 

Sounds like a win-win. Right? 

This is exactly why I created Smoother Siblings in 7 days. It’s not about quick fixes, it’s about giving you and your kids the tools to communicate better under pressure.

Transform sibling relationships in 7 days


I know you’re swamped. You don’t have time to go deep into child brain development and attachment theory.

But you need some relief from the never-ending fighting between your kids.

So I’ve made this course punchy, to the point and easy to implement. 

All you need to do is check your inbox, watch a short 7-10 minute video, grab your daily action sheet and try one small but impactful hack per day.

If you follow the action plan, you’ll see real change by the end of the week.

Here’s what you’ll learn

  • #1 thing you need to know about sibling fights
  • The core rules every house needs
  • How to ‘step out of the middle’ when you don’t need to get involved
  • 6 top tips to reduce sibling conflict
  • Why trying to ‘fix it’ makes fighting worse and what to do/say instead
  • Why connection is at the heart of the solution
  • 5 cup fillers you can do in minutes to prevent fights - yep, it’s possible
  • Lessons from Gen's worst day as a parent
  • Exactly what to say and do to diffuse a sibling fight
  • How to be the calm and strong leader your kids need
  • Common mistakes to avoid that fuel the fire
  • “How will they ever learn if I don’t punish them?” - Gen will tell you
  • What actually helps to change your kids’ behaviour long term
  • How to teach your kids better ways to communicate under pressure
  • The #1 strategy to build their emotional intelligence - a skill they’ll need for life
  • When you act like more of a toddler than your actual toddler - how to repair after your meltdown.
  • Why your reaction to sibling fights can make or break your long-term relationship

What you’ll get

✓  7 x video trainings with Gen

✓  A daily tip sheet with core info, scripts and step-by-step actions to help you when sh*t hits the fan

✓  One small hack to implement each day to see real change

✓  How to repair when you get it wrong (we all stuff up)

✓  Access to a private Facebook group where Gen will answer your questions

✓  Lifetime access to all course content

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Gen is your key to navigating tricky parenting moments with confidence and connection


As an Obstetric Social Worker, Parent Educator and connection expert, Gen knows what works.

She understands what children need to feel secure and heard, and no, this doesn’t mean giving in to their every demand.

Gen will help you get your parenting mojo back and strike that delicate balance between meeting your child’s needs and keeping your sanity.

What you’ll find is honest, authentic support with zero judgement.

Gen the course was fantastic... Loved that it was only 10minutes each day, very doable and digestible!

The tasks/strategies are great, very practical which makes it super helpful to put into practice. Hubby loved it too (it’s taken me so long to get him to do a course with me but because of the format it made it easy for him to do)!
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So many ideas to add sensory approaches and tools for parents. Very exciting.


Sarah Hickey 
Director - Kids First Occupational Therapy

I am noticing my toddler now comes to me when his baby brother takes or breaks something before he hits him which is AMAZING.

For me too I’ve found I only lost it once in the week when before I would lose it daily! I feel like I needed the connection with him just as much as he did.

The sessions were great, bite sized, easy to follow and easy to remember the phases and scripts for each element of the rivalry.

Em

Absolutely loved it. I love how short and to the point the slides are. My highlights were the family meeting and talking through our core rules, building on connection and the repair. I am a shocker for saying "if you two can't share I will throw it in the bin" so it's been great for me to calm down a little and pop things away.

Kathryn

Thank you for everything you put out in the world - It is making me a better parent and human. Day by day and with a lot of practice I am learning so much about how to parent in a way that is more compassionate and supportive than how I was parented. And on the days or moments where I get it wrong, I am able to step into the discomfort and let my kids know that I sometimes muck up too and can try again.

I am still blown away every time your tips and approaches work. Whether it’s diffusing a meltdown, stepping in when the kids start to squabble or simply recognising that ‘kids will go well when they can’ - and when they can’t I can be there to support and guide them.

From the bottom of my heart, thank you!

 I found the broken up content much more achievable. There have been other courses in the past I have signed up for but never ended up watching because it is just too long (not you, from other people). The short videos were easy to fit in. I didn't manage quite one a day because some days are too hectic but I did the 7 over about 11 days and that was fine. I quite liked having a day in between each to have a little longer to mull over and try to implement the tip/homework from that video. I did mostly listen in the car or while cooking.

Ciara

 

I loved your workshop on siblings! It was so clear and simple and little changes that can make a massive difference.
I definitely notice a big change in my kids behaviour towards each other.
I am regularly reminding them of the values that we have and stepping in with those values are crossed and then other times I am just waiting and seeing.


Laura

Just watched session 1! Absolutely amazing, thank you so much, as always!


Annie

Reduce sibling fights and bring more peace to your home - in 7 days


This step-by-step video training program will show you exactly how to respond to sibling conflict – you’ll never second guess yourself again.

Buy Now $34